遇见更好的自己 保持快乐的15个法宝（下）

15 ways we can be happier

遇见更好的自己 保持快乐的15个法宝

8. Stop making excuses for not living out your dream

不要为没有实践自己的梦想而找借口

If others can do it, so can you. A few years from now, you'll be upset with yourself for all the time you wasted and find yourself stuck dwelling on what could have been.

别人可以做到的，你也可以。几年之后，你会为自己所浪费的时间所懊恼，而且发现自己深陷‘本来可以做的事情的细想’的泥潭。

9. Be happy for others

替别人感到高兴。

Being jealous or fake happy is draining. Genuinely be happy for other's success because you'll want them to be happy for you when you share your good news。

嫉妒或是假装很开心是很累的。真心替别人的成功感到高兴是因为你希望在分享自己好消息的时候，他们也能替你感到高兴。

10. Give what you'd like to receive

给予就是获得。

If you're seeking compassion, show it to others. What goes around, always comes back around.

如果你想被同情，你就去同情别人。给予就是个圆圈，有予就有得。

11. Leave expectations at the door 不要对别人抱有期待

People grow, change and make mistakes. Some people will help you while others will attempt to bring you down. Don't expect too much from anyone either way. The only person's actions and mind you can control is your own。

人成长，改变，犯错。有些人会帮助你，而其他人试图击垮你。不要对他人报太大期待。你能控制的只有自己的行为和思想。

12.Validate yourself证明你自己

Don't worry about what others think or don't think of you. What weight does their opinion carry anyway? Think highly of yourself and give yourself permission to be great。

不要担心别人怎么看你。他们的意见又有多少分量呢？高度赞扬自己，让自己有机会变得优秀。

13.Stop settling不要寻求安定

Being single is better than being unhappy and working 80 hours a week. Doing something you love is better than working eight hours a week doing something you hate。

单身总比不快乐的每周工作80小时要强。做一些你喜欢做的事总比每周八小时做一些自己讨厌的事情强。

14.Respect your own privacy给自己留点私人空间

Keep some things to yourself. Not everyone needs to know every detail about your relationship or what's going on at your job, even if they are family and friends. Savor certain moments despite the burning desire to show and prove!

留一点东西给自己。并非所有人需要知道你恋爱关系的所有细节，或是你工作上发生了什么，即使他们是你的家人和朋友。即使自己非常想要告诉别人，证明给别人看，也要给自己留一些时间，让自己好好享受。

15.Live in your own purpose按照自己的目标生活

Don't follow the crowds. Trying to emulate others deters you from that special path you were meant to take. Be inspired from their journey and put that energy into who you were meant to become。

不要随波逐流。试图努力赶上别人的过程会让你偏离自己特定的人生轨道。让自己被别人的人生旅途所鼓舞，并为自己的人生道路不断奋斗。